SEX TIPS *Cunnilingus & Locating the “G” spot*

Hi INSIDERS, I thought I’d give you a little treat! Here are some tips from books I’ve read I thought would be helpful in your quest for great oral sex. Happy eating.

Cunnilingus Chair

Cunnilingus Chair

The Sensuous Couple’s Guide to Seismic Oral Sex by D. Claire Hutchins

Cunnilingus Variations

  1. Raise one of her legs and bend it over your shoulder or to her chest.
  2. Place both legs over your shoulders.
  3. Have her lie on her back with her knees pressed to her chest.
  4. Put her feet ON your shoulders.
  5. Keep her legs flat (in the classic position). This is great for women who like to flex their thighs when they orgasm.
  6. Place pillows under her buttocks to raise her legs or place a pillow behind her back. You can put a pillow under your chest for added comfort.
  7. Try licking from a right angle when she is on her back.
  8. Wrap your arms under her thighs and toward you over her hips. From this position, you can open or massage her labia.
  9. Grasp and lift her buttocks, supporting her hips with your hands.

Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides, Psy.D.

Chapter: Oral Sex: Vulvas & Honeypots

When a woman is about to have an orgasm during oral sex, a finger tip gently inserted into her anus can launch a cascade of pleasure, or it could be the worst thing you can possibly do.

If you decide to try this, there is no need to stick your finger in very far. Just putting pressure on the rim around a lovers’ anus might light up thousands of nerve endings. A variation is to insert a well-lubricated butt plug or vibrator in your partner’s rear while doing oral sex. Or your partner might want you to firmly squeeze her butt cheeks, but stay away from her anus.

She Comes First by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.

Chapter: Escalating the Action

  • tye-fig03_007Start with a straight index finger and then curl it in a “come-hither” gesture.
  • Gently graze her vaginal ceiling with your fingertip. As you do so, your finger will pass over the clitoral cluster, an area of sensitive spongy tissue that surrounds the urethra and swells against the vaginal ceiling when aroused. At this point in the process of arousal, her clitoral cluster should be fairly easy to find, as it is likely engorged with the inflow of blood. Your fingertip should end its journey in the spongy tissue where her vaginal ceiling intersects with her vaginal entrance.
  • Press lightly against her pubic bone with your fingertip. She may shudder at the first touch of the area, as you are now stimulating a new hot zone in the clitoral network.
  • In addition to the “come-hither” finger curl, press the length of your finger up against her vaginal ceiling-hold the position and apply pressure against the area. Don’t be shy about pressing up into her vaginal ceiling. The clitoral cluster is less sensitive than the clitoral head, and responds well to firm, persistent pressure.

 

FYI, the ridge textured area (or as referenced “clitoral cluster) engorged with the inflow of blood is also known as the G spot. Stimulation to this area can also cause squirting.

-Noni Ayana

 

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