Okay, so apparently ‘Love & Hip Hop’ stars Mimi Faust and Nikko Smith made what they call a “hard core” sex tape. Chile please, show the sexologist some real porn, thank you. My problem is the constant persecution of Mimi Faust! Not only is she currently the meme queen, but I often see statements throughout my timelines such as, “she is a mother”, “what about her daughter”, or comments about the trash that’s now on TV, etc. More than likely this sex tape will affect the rest of Mimi’s career in some way or the other, much like how Kim Kardashian (not Ray J) never seems to escape her sex video backlash. Apparently, you can watch the video for free these days, lmao! I’m sure it’s mostly women labeling her slut, whore, bitch, etc. You know we’re quick to do that. Meanwhile Nikko is probably enjoying little criticism of his sexuality. Possibly high-fiving and dapping it up with his homeboys. Once again we perpetuate male sexual freedom and female sexual oppression. It’s a competition thing. Women don’t like to see other women whom are sexually uninhibited. There’s a little hate from women wishing she could be just as free, but she’s afraid of what people will say, so she jumps on the bandwagon and throws stones. Although often times we don’t publicize personal sexual exploits, many are privately performing in front of the camera. And will sometimes show to our close friends to get that “look at me” attention. That’s what all of this is about. Jealous ass women that don’t like to see other women get too much attention, so we call her bitch and whore. Meanwhile you hide behind your indiscretions.
The LHHATL star’s decision to release a sex tape may be ill-advised, but I am in no position to say what she is or isn’; none of us are. If you don’t want your children or teens to be influenced by the glamorization of hyper-sexuality, what are you doing to stop it, other than complain?
What I really didn’t like is the Bossip video, featuring Raven Carter, Senior producer of Bossip.com referring to both MiMi Faust and Nikko Smith as geriatric patients older than Moses. What the hell is that supposed to mean? Stop spreading the myth that sex is only good or even exist when you’re young. People have sex well into their 80’s. As long as you’re living you’re going to grow older, that DOES NOT, I repeat, that DOES NOT mean we no longer want or enjoy sex. Yes, I will be the one in the “assisted living” trying to hunch and feel on the male staff. I’m a grown and sexual ass woman, you think imma stop wanting dick? GTFOH!
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